RPG's... Game or... Sexual Therapy? What is it WotC?

 

So... yeah... seems to be allergies? But in my line of work, I got to get tested today.

Anyways, this will give me some time to type up some articles for my blog here.

SEX and Role-playing Games. It's a topic, it's a thing.

As for the mainstream Dungeons & Dragons, I'm certain many of us have played the games and encountered some form of sexual innuendo. 
Many sex-therapists use Role-Play as a tool to understand a couple's issues.
The thing is, when you play D&D, are you using it as a game or therapy?

This is something each of us should ask ourselves when we approach gaming. 
When you play chess, are you acting out sexual innuendo?
When you play Uno? Munchkin? Battletech? Monopoly?

As a married gamer-dad (married late in life at 35, just had our 21st Anniversary in May), my kids are all old enough to play role-playing games. When I'm GM/DM'ing any RPG, a lot of times my kids might want to join the group... so I've never used innuendo when they participate, and my older players don't initiate it (even without my kids playing, so far). If there was a situation where a player is smitten by the opposite sex, or same-sex... the general fade-to-black is what I use. It is implied that something has happened between the 2 characters (pc-pc, pc-npc, npc-npc) to have the 2 persons closer to a personal relationship.

It would feel uncomfortable if my kids were involved in that, within a game I'm GM/DM'ing.

As a guy who lived the hedonistic rock-and-roll band lifestyle until he hit his 30's, it really doesn't make me flinch at all if players go into innuendo mode in my games, of any inter-sexual means. (like I say, when my kids are in the group... um, pass). 
But the thing is, D&D and all other RPG's, are GAMES. And to me they are first and foremost just a GAME. Not therapy.

If you are playing RPG's in order to satisfy a sexual fetish, I'm sure there are RPG groups out there that will indulge your desires. But I think WOTC is making a big mistake if they are attempting to advertise their "game" as "sexual-therapy". After all, isn't that what they are currently trying to... approach?

It's something for us to think about, and question among ourselves. 

My Favorite PC I've ever played.

THE STORY OF VALGAR BLOODFLYTE

My favorite campaign instance as a player was long ago back around 1986. Near the end of my RPG days back then because work, guitar/band practices, and playing gigs on the weekends were over-riding my gaming time.

The game was standard D&D, the DM (Ted) was pretty good at off-the-cuff adventures. Taking an idea out of thin air and rolling with it with minimal prep.

The player group was between 4-7 players, depending on work, most of us were Security Guards who were night-owls due to our schedules. Others were GF’s and other acquaintances. A span of about a dozen players played through this campaign for about 2 years.

Everyone rolled 4d6 drop lowest… roll for height/weight and later, those who survived, we all rolled secret backgrounds.

My character was a male human, with a sailor background (seafaring mercenary), name Valgar Bloodflyte. I rolled exceptional 18+ strength (46%) and my rolls for height was 6’6”, yeah, BIG.

The only other stats of note were a 15 charisma and a 16 dexterity, the others were in the 10-13 range.
He used the Bastard Sword as his main weapon.

Ted started us off in “medias res” on the road with Captain Karn, (the Baron’s Step-son), a select few of the Baron’s guards, and the party (consisting of various ½ elf and humans of different classes).
Our mission was to rescue the Baron’s daughter, whom was abducted by the Elves of the North.

It became quite apparent that Karn had a dislike towards the ½ elves in the party, Valgar befriended on of the mixed-race members of the band and Karn’s distain spread towards Valgar as well.

Ted had been DM’ing another group as well and decided to pull the 2 groups together as an encounter. The Second party was mostly Elves and ½ Elves and a Dwarf, working for the Northern Elven Kingdom, looking for the Baron’s daughter as well.

It had become quite apparent that something was a-miss, both camps met on opposing sides of a clearing. Valgar was ordered ahead with his ½ Elf friend to “talk”. Karn was hoping that we would meet death at the hands of the Elves.
After engaging in banter with the Northerners it was evident that the Elves did not have possession of the Baron’s Daughter, and were in fact trying to track down the real culprits of the abduction.

Valgar returned to Karn’s camp, letting him know that the Elves had no intention on attacking.
“Good!” said Karn, “then ready the men, we outnumber them 2 to 1, it should be easy to take their camp by surprise!”
The attack did not go as Karn intended, as in mid-charge, Valgar turned on the Baron’s men.
Karn escaped though, and the remaining PC’s that survived, formed a new party.

The new group followed the trail of the real culprits, Brigands from Karn’s homeland. It was quite possible that Karn wanted to do away with the Baron’s heir, leaving him as the sole benefactor upon the Baron’s demise.

It was quite the overland trek, Valgar slew an Ogre and started a trend, that he would keep as a trait… collecting trophies. The Ogres skull was turned into the facemask of his helmet. Later Valgar was mauled by a grizzly, but the party managed to end the fight, the party thought Valgar earned the skin after being the party “meat-shield”. Bear-skin Cloak.
A fight with a fire-drake… the scales were turned to armor.

Soon enough, the group found the location of the Brigands camp. I believe Ted possibly used some of the Slaver’s series for the setting. Valgar unfortunately became one of the captives with his friend, the Dwarf named Magnus. As the two toiled in the mines they discovered a false-wall in the caves, finding a long chasm leading to a hidden ship, and a way out to the sea. 2 items of note were the Dead Captains Greatsword and his Amulet. Valgar took these as weapons to help him break out of the mines.

The other half of the captive party found the imprisoned Baron’s Daughter, and with chaos ensuing on the Brigands the entire party escaped with their belongings… Valgar Sailing the ship out of hiding, and escaping.

The Sword and Amulet were not without a curse, driving Valgar into periods of alcoholism. His other findings were a Ring of Feather-fall and Boots of Levitation. The sword also was a Flame-tongue.

Finally landing at port, as close as he could towards the Baron’s domain. He sold the ship to fund the means to cross a great swamp to return the Daughter. Karn had sent various mercenaries out to stop the Baron’s Daughters’’ return, by all means necessary.
Valgar, normally Chaotic-Good (under the influence of the amulet was Chaotic-Neutral) Causing all kinds of devastation as his means to escape the Baron’s men (swayed by Karn’s influence) and Mercenaries alike. Unfortunately, assassins caught up with the party in the swamps, and due to open rolls of critical misses aimed at Valgar, the Baron’s Daughter was inadvertently killed instead.

The near impossible trudge through the swamp forced the remaining party to lighten the load… laying the Baron’s Daughter to rest in the mire. Valgar had an idea… resurrection. We only need a piece of the Baron’s Daughter to make it happen. So, in a sealed jar of wax, was her hand.

Bear with me. 6’6”, Skull helmet, flaming sword, Chaotic-neutral, alcoholic, burning death to all who oppose him, near impossible to capture due to being able to leap off high cliffs and buildings, and ascending the same. With the Baron’s Daughters’ hand in a jar.

His best friend is a Chaotic Dwarf drinking buddy, and a ragtag group of followers (we were around level 8-9 by now). Hunted down occasionally by well-meaning, mis-informed PC’s.

Ah, the secret background, his was rolled on a d100. 01= lowly pauper, 100= Royalty. I rolled 97.

As Valgar’s new goal was to gain the means of resurrecting the Baron’s Daughter, and bringing her back to her home. He was then tracked down by the emissaries, whom believed Valgar was an heir to their lands over the sea. Managing to have the amulet finally removed, Valgar returned to chaotic-good intentions (but a lot less “fun” at the taverns, as Magnus has said).

As you well know, those of us who have played for many years. Groups eventually die, and most Campaigns are without conclusion. Yes, this was one of those casualties of time management.

Ted moved away and I was way too busy to play anymore. Ted did call me a few years back for some Space 1889 notes, as he remembers the Space 1889 campaign I had them playing for a year. He needed the low-down on some of the adversaries they faced, as he was planning on using them to continue the game I started… with the original players. Ah, Space 1889. That is another story all together as one of my favorite games to GM (the original GDW version), but for another time.

 

For The NEW Fantasy World DM/GM/Referee... Short Guide of Setting up the game

 

Friends, who finally decide to delve in the Mastery of Creating a Fantasy RPG group, as the DM/GM.

As this will be your first time in refereeing a game, I hope you might consider a lot of guidance here.

 

1: Your first game only needs to consist of 3 key things.

•          A location (town/hamlet/village/keep) for the players to re-supply and become “known” as they increase their reputation.
•          A location (caves, ruins, dungeon, complex) that players can gain loot/items and experience.
•          A list of side-ideas (competing parties, mini-encounters, reactive ideas on what happens at either locations) to fill in the journey between the 2 locations above.

For the First bullet point, you don’t need any more than this to start. Your Focus will be creating believable NPC’s, listing their mannerisms wants and needs is handy, and a simple physical description.
DO NOT MAKE PC-NPC’s 
You are a DM/GM… you are not a player, never make yourself a PC in the game. DON’T… seriously DON’T.

For the Second bullet point, make the looting grounds interesting, and for the sake of sanity, make it the only “known” location of mystery for the party… you will learn quickly that your own mouth is your worst enemy.

The Third bullet point is BROAD and redefines itself as the game progresses. Players may develop relationships to both locations that may create re-occurring enemies (even in town) and interesting drama for the trips between the 2 locations.

2: Once again, to be clear, as the definitive Master of the world, your MOUTH is your own worst enemy.

•         The players MUST know of the looting location, for now it should be the only location.
•          Listen to your players as they play… IMPORTANT
•          Stay consistent.

The opening game session, the players must have some implied goal, it’s usually “Loot location X” to become stronger. And this must be clear to the players. If it isn’t, then the players will run around, annoy the NPC’s and end up burning down the starting location to cover their crimes.

Make sure the characters are ALREADY equipped. This stops the first session devolving into a shopping session. It’s best to prep the player as they create and equip their character (buy stuff that will set your player up for a cave exploration, or wilderness exploration or castle heist…)

START the players leaving town and on their way to the looting-location, the party can develop on the road trip, and there will be PLENTY of time for shopping/carousing with NPC’s when they return from the action... with REAL stories to tell of their exploits, not just made-up pre-character background.

Listening to the Players lets you know what they like or don’t like in the game. Sometimes players come to conclusions about the locations that you might want to steal (and twist). After all, let them feel the gratitude of knowing they were right all along, when you can. They might have a love for certain types of explorations, cater to them for future adventures.

KEEP consistent. Your rules, rulings, mechanics must remain solid in your world. This also extends to your locations and NPC’s, motivations should never waiver, personalities should be set in stone.

After your first series of adventuring sessions with the players, you should have an understanding on the character/player/group dynamics and hopefully set the stages to new adventures and hooks to new locations. You will know if the entire group of players want to carry on, or end the adventure as is (as a one-shot).

 

One of my favorite campaign games as a player started the group off with a solid goal.

The DM presented a world in a power struggle.
The group of us are assembled to find the Baron’s daughter, apparently kidnapped by the elves.
Our group led by the Baron’s (NPC) Captain, whom we discovered had an evil-wolfish side to him several days into the journey.

The mission was clear from the get-go, it had everything for the players… fame, infamy, loot, inter group antagonist, and the discovery that the Elves didn’t kidnap the Baron’s Daughter, thus raiding the slaver/brigand’s stronghold that had her. Evil-Captain part of a ploy to war with the Elves… it was great.

Infinity RPG Core Book

 

I've had Infinity miniatures in my collection, but I've never actually played Infinity as a skirmish game.

Recently seen this Roleplaying game and thought, this might be interesting as I've recently acquired Infinity:Defiance Boardgame and a lot of the bonus Kickstarter materials (2nd wave on it's way). 

I've never played the Modiphius 2d20 system so I'm still in question of the mechanics. So far with my first glance over it, very wordy, lots of exposition, and a character building system that looks like it crosses TRAVELLER with BATTLETECH: A Time of War. The idea of this character building appeals to me.

I'll read through this 496+ page behemoth (and the little adventures book peaking behind it in the image) and come back later with my thoughts.